It is amazing what can happen if you say, YES! And I did…
Tracy Wilson, head of The Berkshire Music School called last Friday to ask if I would critique a class of students that were studying to be Cabaret Artists.
Having spent many years in and out of Cabarets…with or without smoke (oh, yes, if they weren’t blowing smoke in your face you were not in a cabaret), or waiters taking and delivering orders and of course, as you are building up to the final crescendo of a very dramatic song, a drunk yells out, “Sing Melancholy Baby”!
And yet, with all of that, some of my best experiences have been in the Cabaret. The experimenting with new material, learning how to think fast on your feet as a lyric goes missing from your brain, there is NO SAFE HOUSE to hide behind. And most of all because there is an incredible intimacy with the audience…even if you make the connection with just one person, it is a connection you can feel because it is the most intimate venue.
For all those reasons and most of all because Tracy asked me. What she has done in Berkshire County with all ages of peoples with musical talent at all levels is nothing short of breathtaking. So yes, I said “yes”.
I showed up at the Berkshire School of Music last Saturday to a Cabaret class taught by Sherri James Buxton with Bob Sheperd as Musical Director. I was introduced to all. No one had any real cabaret performing experience. The age of the youngest was 65, maybe 70 and the oldest was 92. 92!!!!
I had complained about getting out of bed that morning. Get a grip, SJ. And if you haven’t heard “My Way” sung by a 92 year old man, you’ve not heard it. And let me tell you, from that moment to right now, I put my over-the-top sense of judgment (ask my children they’ll tell how well developed my judgmental self is) in the garbage. I replaced judgment with gratitude:
- to Tracy for asking me
- to Sherri and Bob for just being who they are
- to the four students who performed for a total stranger as if that’s what they did all the time.
I am an ordinary human who feels I have an inordinate right to complain particularly when life doesn’t go my way. I watched and listened to four people push the envelope of life until it blossomed like the rose you wish you had planted and nurtured. And yes, they all won the prize.
Each one in their own way went for the dream. Oh, yes, this was something they wanted to do for a long time. Life is what happens while you’re making plans, right? Of course, right!
Many of us go along with coulda, woulda, shoulda. None of that was apparent in the room as they sang with heart with soul with LIFE.
In my show I ask the audience to check their pulse. I remind them if they feel it, (and believe me if they don’t they probably didn’t buy a ticket) GET UP, GET OUT, LAUGH UNTIL YOUR SIDES HURT, BUT MOST OF ALL LOVE!
Oh, my friends there was so much love in that room that morning.
I floated out and am still airborne. More and more I do not recognize the world around me. But on that morning in Berkshire Music school , students of a certain age were following their dreams and, for me, for just that moment in time I remembered, like the t-shirt says, LIFE IS GOOD.
To you, Tracy, Sherri, Bob… THANK YOU.