My Dear Friends and Family,
Do you remember back in September when I wrote that I was trying to learn my smother-mother lessons…?
“… I have three daughters. My oldest daughter and her husband and their 16-year old daughter decided to move to Barcelona for a year…”
Don’t tell anyone, but I flew to Barcelona anyway….
This is what I did learn.
10 LESSONS IN CATALONIA (aka Barcelona)
1. Eat Tapas
3. Eat Tapas
5. Eat Tapas
6. View the artists from Picasso to Miro to Gaudi to Mercedes Pasquale
7. Eat Tapas
8. Pay for Tapas
9. Important vocabulary: Hola, Gràcia, Mucho Gràcia, Te Quiero
10. Eat last tapas before leaving
Traveling to foreign cultures is a balm for the spirit.
No twitter. No tweet. HEAVEN!!
Travel offers perspective. Try this one for size…
Every country carries it’s own political baggage. At different times in history, some of that baggage is heavier that at other times. For me, the week away lightened my overloaded brainball.
I recommend trying it… and the tapas!
P.S A little smother-mother goes a long way… like, over 3000 miles.
I read this book. I read a lot of books. This one really got to me. Anyone heard of the repetitive syndrome in relationships? Apparently, however we were raised… good, bad, or indifferent, we want to recreate those beginnings with every relationship we have. Sometimes to snuggle back into fond childhood memories, but mostly, it is to make those bad and indifferent beginnings better. Get it?
How many times have you said, “I am never going to be like my mother… father…”? Isn’t it amazing how that voice creeps in when you least expect it? I wrote a series of vignettes about a woman named Harriet Ferment. Two disclaimers: First, I am the mother of three daughters. They didn’t make it to my show. I gave them the wrong time and date. And two, any resemblance between myself and Harriet is coincidentally, accidentally spot on. To give you a sense of where Harriet came from, let me share some of her mother’s bon mots.
When she took Harriet to camp, she inspected the bunk bathroom and exclaimed to Harriet and the counselor how to use the seat so she wouldn’t get diseased or pregnant.
Harriet, cleanliness, like Godliness is in the eye of the holder.
On preparing Harriet for marriage…
Harriet, no man will marry spoiled fruit.
On how much she loved her…
Harriet, a mother to a daughter is like a camel to his hump.
On the privilege of having a daughter…
Harriet, a mother’s blessing, like her curse is forever.